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No, I ignored her, I didn’t tell her to fuck off until about 30 minutes
ago. Act like an adult! Telling a friend to "fuck off" just because their friends with someone you don’t care for just shows how childish you really are… Guess I’m a better person than you… I can see this place will never change. Have fun with your fucking mind games and lies…You’re just sinking deeper & deeper in your own self pity little man…
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I suggest we stop falling out among ourselves and start letting this group run smoothly, before it loses all credibility and fades away. That will make Jackie & Philip happy!!
Hello.I can’t speak for jackie and Philip tho I am pretty sure they don’t find any pleasure in this group falling apart. I can speak for me however and I don’t like it one bit ! In ASAP is still the word "support" Now we all know what problems we can have posting to a group and ask for support. PAD-OCD & PTSD don’t make people feel at ease very quickly. I myself never stopped posting here and I won’t If I think I can say something on a subject I will. Cause in the end newbies and some others turn to ASAP for support and I think we would be better of giving that. Take care Anna
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They will work very hard to make it work, and gush all over each other, but it will never be a patch on what ASAP used to be – and what it can be again. However, I did not have all that nonsense with Philip et al just to have you try and take over as the leader of yet another "clique"!!
Not that anyone gives a shit but since I was part of the flood think I should give my input. After ASAPM was formed I thought ASAP would be free from all leaders of the group and would eventually become a real support group. I was wrong, boB dictated himself a leader and for only one reason. To show the "clique" he can run an NG. Pretty selfish if you ask me. I never believed in a clique. I only had problems with 3 people. And among other reasons that’s why I was part of the flood to try and put an end to that nonsense. I would like to see ASAP as a group, not certain individuals run the place… I suggest we stop falling out among ourselves and start letting this group run smoothly, before it loses all credibility and fades away. That will make Jackie & Philip happy!!
John those 2 people may be your reasoning not everyone else’s but I will stop attacking boB if he stops doing what I mentioned above and stops putting blame where it doesn’t belong…
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I know you’re talking to the other John but let me answer your question. It’s all about the way you treated a mutual friend and dumped her when she was in need of all the friends she could have at this time. She emailed you for support and to explain why she wasn’t feeling so good and you ignored her. I rarely read personal emails, from anyone. I dislike them, and delete them unread. Anyone who has emailed me on personal issues KNOWS that.
Not that it matters, but to set the record straight, this email in question was merely a *response* to an email that you sent me.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods? When you decided to undermine Nighthawk and take the piss out of me; not a sensible move as we are the only chums you’ve got/had!! John I am not willing to help ANYONE forge approvals to a moderated group. I don’t need chums that badly.
I have no idea what "forging approvals" is all about, nor do I want to! I was curious how you managed to get messages past the moderators at ASA-PM, and why mine were rejected. I no longer wish to post there as I refuse to have my posts ‘censored’!! I can see all that is posted there, and it is just as sterile and peurile as I thought it would be. They will work very hard to make it work, and gush all over each other, but it will never be a patch on what ASAP used to be – and what it can be again. However, I did not have all that nonsense with Philip et al just to have you try and take over as the leader of yet another "clique"!! I suggest we stop falling out among ourselves and start letting this group run smoothly, before it loses all credibility and fades away. That will make Jackie & Philip happy!!
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Amen! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods? When you decided to undermine Nighthawk and take the piss out of me; not a sensible move as we are the only chums you’ve got/had!!
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – John I am not willing to help ANYONE forge approvals to a moderated group. I don’t need chums that badly.
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But you didn’t give a shit you just told her in other words to fuck off. No, I ignored her, I didn’t tell her to fuck off until about 30 minutes ago.
You get off talking to women like that don’t you? You’re just a woman abuser and in real life you’re a pussy when it comes to dealing with men and I bet you run for cover when the mailman comes to your door. I’ll even bet in RL you’re a coward during any kind of altercation with a man but a big brave man if it’s a woman, isn’t that true? Yes it is….
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In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods? When you decided to undermine Nighthawk and take the piss out of me; not a sensible move as we are the only chums you’ve got/had!!
John I am not willing to help ANYONE forge approvals to a moderated group. I don’t need chums that badly.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods? I know you’re talking to the other John but let me answer your question. It’s all about the way you treated a mutual friend and dumped her when she was in need of all the friends she could have at this time. She emailed you for support and to explain why she wasn’t feeling so good and you ignored her.
I rarely read personal emails, from anyone. I dislike them, and delete them unread. Anyone who has emailed me on personal issues KNOWS that. You knew about the stress she was under waiting for her results.
?? Results from what? But you didn’t give a shit you just told her in other words to fuck off.
No, I ignored her, I didn’t tell her to fuck off until about 30 minutes ago. bob you don’t do that to a person and think that there will be no reprisals.
Reprise away shit for brains. 
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In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods?
I know you’re talking to the other John but let me answer your question. It’s all about the way you treated a mutual friend and dumped her when she was in need of all the friends she could have at this time. She emailed you for support and to explain why she wasn’t feeling so good and you ignored her. You knew about the stress she was under waiting for her results. But you didn’t give a shit you just told her in other words to fuck off. bob you don’t do that to a person and think that there will be no reprisals.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Sorry lads; in my opinion, and as smart as you may think you are (and you are both so much more wise than me in the ways of all things ‘cyber’) – you are without doubt a couple of pricks! Tell me something I don’t know. Unfortunately you forgot to include someone…yourself my friend.;-) Why don’t you just ease off and let’s get this group functioning like it was before you fucked it up? Do you happen to have a date for when this group was functioning? As I recall you and ChickenHawk were pond scum around here LONG before I came along. Cheers. Congratulations bob, you found your balls, only others are wearing them. Don’t worry I don’t think anyone will nprice that you need back up to handle yourself. 
It might be helpful if you stopped blaming boB for your quite un-necessarily guttersnipe behaviour! Why don’t you stop being such a competitive prick – and just be nice, which you are so capable of being?
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In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods?
When you decided to undermine Nighthawk and take the piss out of me; not a sensible move as we are the only chums you’ve got/had!! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –
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In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up!
Explain yourself John. What did I do to start these floods?
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Sorry lads; in my opinion, and as smart as you may think you are (and you are both so much more wise than me in the ways of all things ‘cyber’) – you are without doubt a couple of pricks! Tell me something I don’t know. Unfortunately you forgot to include someone…yourself my friend.;-) Why don’t you just ease off and let’s get this group functioning like it was before you fucked it up? Do you happen to have a date for when this group was functioning? As I recall you and ChickenHawk were pond scum around here LONG before I came along. Cheers.
Congratulations bob, you found your balls, only others are wearing them. Don’t worry I don’t think anyone will notice that you need back up to handle yourself.
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Sorry lads; in my opinion, and as smart as you may think you are (and you are both so much more wise than me in the ways of all things ‘cyber’) – you are without doubt a couple of pricks! Tell me something I don’t know. Unfortunately you forgot to include someone…yourself my friend.;-)
I’m a prick also if that helps you to mitigate the sorry state into which ASAP is disintegrating! Why don’t you just ease off and let’s get this group functioning like it was before you fucked it up? Do you happen to have a date for when this group was functioning? As I recall you and ChickenHawk were pond scum around here LONG before I came along.I
As already stated, I was having a feud with Philip! I was pleased to have a couple of allies – and I thought we had become chums with a mutual goal. In fact we did achieve a significant victory – and now you two silly buggers are cocking it all up! Do you really want to abandon all we have achieved? Bung Ho! o;)) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Cheers.
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Sorry lads; in my opinion, and as smart as you may think you are (and you are both so much more wise than me in the ways of all things ‘cyber’) – you are without doubt a couple of pricks!
Tell me something I don’t know. Unfortunately you forgot to include someone…yourself my friend.;-) Why don’t you just ease off and let’s get this group functioning like it was before you fucked it up?
Do you happen to have a date for when this group was functioning? As I recall you and ChickenHawk were pond scum around here LONG before I came along. Cheers.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I like to win. I like to get my way. But I do not begrudge the people I fondly refer to as The Clique a safe place to post, a place to be with their friends. I took a very proactive position to prevent battles between those left behind in ASAP and those is ASAPM. I have no idea if I’m responsible but there are no battles. Snipping in ASAPM at ASAP has virtually stopped, and no one is coming to ASAP trying to cause further problems for us. I’m happy with that but there are others here in ASAP who are not. It seems they want ASAPMers to come here and flame and fight. They want ASAPMers behaving badly in ASAP so they can point fingers as say. "See they are no better than we are" Well I have news for you. Right now the people in ASAPM are proving to be so much better than us it isn’t even funny.
It just seems to me that the so called "clique" is just an excuse for bad behaviour here, so that other ‘inadequates’ could make a bid to take over ASAP. My original gripe was against Philip who always wanted to oppose anything I posted. I just made him look foolish because he is not very smart, and he had no business being so proprietorial. Unfortunately, Jackie took to defending him and so our feud began. Despite boB, Nighthawk and myself forming an unlikely alliance, which was ultimately to be responsible for the complete breakdown of ASAP as it then was, what has happened since the capitulation is anything but satisfactory!! The peace was made; Philip and Jackie were talking to us all; we were even on the ‘birthday list’!! But that wasn’t good enough for boB or Nighthawk – they then decided to fall out about who was to get the credit for the ‘victory’! boB wanted complete vindication from his outrageous ‘trolling’, and Nighthawk – in all his manifestations (and his repetitve foulness) – just wanted to be loved in his confusion! We told them to bugger off and form their own moderated group, so they could be boring and be like a silly ladies’ sewing circle’ – so they did! And they are just that – a boring bunch of farts completely without pith – yet determined to prove boB and Nighthawk wrong – and who can blame them? So what happens at ASAP? boB and Nighthawk now feud and continue to ‘troll’ in what appears to be an effort to prove the so-called "clique" were right! Sorry lads; in my opinion, and as smart as you may think you are (and you are both so much more wise than me in the ways of all things ‘cyber’) – you are without doubt a couple of pricks! Why don’t you just ease off and let’s get this group functioning like it was before you fucked it up? John www.benzos.net
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I like to win. I like to get my way. But I do not begrudge the people I fondly refer to as The Clique a safe place to post, a place to be with their friends. I took a very proactive position to prevent battles between those left behind in ASAP and those is ASAPM. I have no idea if I’m responsible but there are no battles. Snipping in ASAPM at ASAP has virtually stopped, and no one is coming to ASAP trying to cause further problems for us. I’m happy with that but there are others here in ASAP who are not. It seems they want ASAPMers to come here and flame and fight. They want ASAPMers behaving badly in ASAP so they can point fingers as say. "See they are no better than we are" Well I have news for you. Right now the people in ASAPM are proving to be so much better than us it isn’t even funny. Kissy kissy )
LOL! Keep this up Kenny and I can almost guarantee a certain ASAP ho will be around shortly to suck your dick.;-)
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I like to win. I like to get my way. But I do not begrudge the people I fondly refer to as The Clique a safe place to post, a place to be with their friends. I took a very proactive position to prevent battles between those left behind in ASAP and those is ASAPM. I have no idea if I’m responsible but there are no battles. Snipping in ASAPM at ASAP has virtually stopped, and no one is coming to ASAP trying to cause further problems for us. I’m happy with that but there are others here in ASAP who are not. It seems they want ASAPMers to come here and flame and fight. They want ASAPMers behaving badly in ASAP so they can point fingers as say. "See they are no better than we are" Well I have news for you. Right now the people in ASAPM are proving to be so much better than us it isn’t even funny. Kissy kissy )
ROFLMFAO!!! Ha!
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I like to win. I like to get my way. But I do not begrudge the people I fondly refer to as The Clique a safe place to post, a place to be with their friends. I took a very proactive position to prevent battles between those left behind in ASAP and those is ASAPM. I have no idea if I’m responsible but there are no battles. Snipping in ASAPM at ASAP has virtually stopped, and no one is coming to ASAP trying to cause further problems for us. I’m happy with that but there are others here in ASAP who are not. It seems they want ASAPMers to come here and flame and fight. They want ASAPMers behaving badly in ASAP so they can point fingers as say. "See they are no better than we are" Well I have news for you. Right now the people in ASAPM are proving to be so much better than us it isn’t even funny.
Kissy kissy ) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –
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I like to win. I like to get my way. But I do not begrudge the people I fondly refer to as The Clique a safe place to post, a place to be with their friends. I took a very proactive position to prevent battles between those left behind in ASAP and those is ASAPM. I have no idea if I’m responsible but there are no battles. Snipping in ASAPM at ASAP has virtually stopped, and no one is coming to ASAP trying to cause further problems for us. I’m happy with that but there are others here in ASAP who are not. It seems they want ASAPMers to come here and flame and fight. They want ASAPMers behaving badly in ASAP so they can point fingers as say. "See they are no better than we are"
Didn’t Frank Sinatra sing that song? Well I have news for you. Right now the people in ASAPM are proving to be so much better than us it isn’t even funny.
My God you sound like Julima! Below is the lyrics I believe your trying to drool out. LOL! And now, the end is near; And so I face the final curtain. My friend, I’ll say it clear, I’ll state my case, of which I’m certain. I’ve lived a life that’s full. I’ve traveled each and ev’ry highway; But more, much more than this, I did it my way. Regrets, I’ve had a few; But then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do And saw it through without exemption. I planned each charted course; Each careful step along the byway, But more, much more than this, I did it my way. Yes, there were times, I’m sure you knew When I bit off more than I could chew. But through it all, when there was doubt, I ate it up and spit it out. I faced it all and I stood tall; And did it my way. I’ve loved, I’ve laughed and cried. I’ve had my fill; my share of losing. And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing. To think I did all that; And may I say – not in a shy way, "No, oh no not me, I did it my way". For what is a man, what has he got? If not himself, then he has naught. To say the things he truly feels; And not the words of one who kneels. The record shows I took the blows – And did it my way! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –
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I like to win. I like to get my way. But I do not begrudge the people I fondly refer to as The Clique a safe place to post, a place to be with their friends. I took a very proactive position to prevent battles between those left behind in ASAP and those is ASAPM. I have no idea if I’m responsible but there are no battles. Snipping in ASAPM at ASAP has virtually stopped, and no one is coming to ASAP trying to cause further problems for us. I’m happy with that but there are others here in ASAP who are not. It seems they want ASAPMers to come here and flame and fight. They want ASAPMers behaving badly in ASAP so they can point fingers as say. "See they are no better than we are" Well I have news for you. Right now the people in ASAPM are proving to be so much better than us it isn’t even funny.
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