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Peek a boo, I see you!!!!. And this is all a stalker has to do to find your name is reply to every post on this NG. in the very same way as I just did, right now, and say hello or ask if you are interested in visiting a music web, or say nothing at all for that matter. . Who do you think you’re fooling with your x no archive: yes. ? If I was a Stalker, support groups are the first place I would look for someone. Get real with your  x no archive. You’re all so naive. Were you all born yesterday or is this somebody’s idea of a little control game of wit. Stephanie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -gmt wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > Hi group! > The only way that we in this NG can feel secure is to form a group > consensus on what security means to us.  We need to have trust in one > another that we will not breach each others security.  Trust and > security go hand in hand.  As these are hallmark issues of all people > with PTSD.  No matter what else may be our differences, we NEED to feel > secure and trust that all will respect our need for security. > The need to feel secure has nothing to do with paranoia.  If you think > it does, I suggest you start reading up a bit on the differences between > the two.  Webster is a good place to begin… > We need to feel secure before we can trust.  This is really not a > debatable issue. > We need to feel secure so that we can begin to share and support one > another. > We need to respect each other’s need/wishes for security. > It would be helpful if we did not flame each other.  But, I realize that > in a group with such varied personalities and lives highly affected by > PTSD, differences and even (some) flaming is almost inevitable.  This is > not the purpose of this post, though. > I believe that the time has come to develop and form a group consensus > of what this group means, what it’s purpose is, and MOST OF ALL, the > absolute need for security AT ALL TIMES, without exception.  Newbies > will be given a suitable break, of course. > I am referring to a need NOW to develop a FAQ.  Period.  I have > mentioned it before.  Now, I see it as an absolute necessity. > In light of repeated postings by members (either new or returnees)  that > refuse to acknowledge the need for security in the group and of > individuals, we really have to be able to come together on this one > issue. (I, myself, have been guilty in the past of not understanding > just how important this is to us) > In fact, there has been a blatant post by a poster flaunting her lack of > respect for the need of security and, has requested that we "OUT" some > people to the sick f***s  in the world. > (Stephanie, what you posted about "outing" some of our group members is > unconscionably the work of a very twisted mind.  I will not communicate > with you again on this subject) > There are a lot of sick people out there that will stoop to any low to > find a new or old victim to prey upon. > We do not need to add ourselves to that list. > We’ve been there, and we ain’t going back there again!!!!!!!!!!! > This, again, is a call for any interested people to help form a FAQ for > this NG. > See thread "FAQ," for those that wish to add their names to the FAQ > committee. > Respectfully submitted with GOD’s blessings upon those of us who chose > to help with this endeavor, > gmt

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And have I got news for you !!!! Was anyone aware that most Stalkers got to be stalkers BECAUSE  they experienced serious Trauma in their lives, and in order to deal with the pain, they displace their lives and their sense of self worth onto others in order to maintain their sanity and stability. Therefore they stalk in their wish to be like the person they are stalking or to be associated with the success of that person they are stalking or their need to be loved and accepted by the person they are stalking. By stalking,  they unconsciously try to repair the damage and the void and the pain in their own wasted lives. So if you are trying to run from a Stalker, alt.support.trauma-ptsd, is the last place you should be hanging out because it’s the first pace these people will frequent to look for help for their pain. . Stephanie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Stephanie Baziuk wrote: > Peek a boo, I see you!!!!. > And this is all a stalker has to do to find your name is reply to every post > on this NG. in the very same way as I just did, right now, and say hello or > ask if you are interested in visiting a music web, or say nothing at all for > that matter. . > Who do you think you’re fooling with your x no archive: yes. ? > If I was a Stalker, support groups are the first place I would look for > someone. > Get real with your  x no archive. You’re all so naive. Were you all born > yesterday or is this somebody’s idea of a little control game of wit. > Stephanie > gmt wrote: > > x-no-archive: yes > > Hi group! > > The only way that we in this NG can feel secure is to form a group > > consensus on what security means to us.  We need to have trust in one > > another that we will not breach each others security.  Trust and > > security go hand in hand.  As these are hallmark issues of all people > > with PTSD.  No matter what else may be our differences, we NEED to feel > > secure and trust that all will respect our need for security. > > The need to feel secure has nothing to do with paranoia.  If you think > > it does, I suggest you start reading up a bit on the differences between > > the two.  Webster is a good place to begin… > > We need to feel secure before we can trust.  This is really not a > > debatable issue. > > We need to feel secure so that we can begin to share and support one > > another. > > We need to respect each other’s need/wishes for security. > > It would be helpful if we did not flame each other.  But, I realize that > > in a group with such varied personalities and lives highly affected by > > PTSD, differences and even (some) flaming is almost inevitable.  This is > > not the purpose of this post, though. > > I believe that the time has come to develop and form a group consensus > > of what this group means, what it’s purpose is, and MOST OF ALL, the > > absolute need for security AT ALL TIMES, without exception.  Newbies > > will be given a suitable break, of course. > > I am referring to a need NOW to develop a FAQ.  Period.  I have > > mentioned it before.  Now, I see it as an absolute necessity. > > In light of repeated postings by members (either new or returnees)  that > > refuse to acknowledge the need for security in the group and of > > individuals, we really have to be able to come together on this one > > issue. (I, myself, have been guilty in the past of not understanding > > just how important this is to us) > > In fact, there has been a blatant post by a poster flaunting her lack of > > respect for the need of security and, has requested that we "OUT" some > > people to the sick f***s  in the world. > > (Stephanie, what you posted about "outing" some of our group members is > > unconscionably the work of a very twisted mind.  I will not communicate > > with you again on this subject) > > There are a lot of sick people out there that will stoop to any low to > > find a new or old victim to prey upon. > > We do not need to add ourselves to that list. > > We’ve been there, and we ain’t going back there again!!!!!!!!!!! > > This, again, is a call for any interested people to help form a FAQ for > > this NG. > > See thread "FAQ," for those that wish to add their names to the FAQ > > committee. > > Respectfully submitted with GOD’s blessings upon those of us who chose > > to help with this endeavor, > > gmt

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I think your post needs to be archived into History Luanne. And Luanne, Regarding who has PTSD and who hasn’t:  You have been voted "the Judge" of everyone who comes here so you are in the position to make that assumption and Judgment Right ? And you have been voted exempt from using civil language on this NG Right ? Words like FUCK, STALKER,  TROLL, WANABEE COUNSELOR are acceptable for you ? I don’t buy your PTSD claim Luanne. People with PTSD are humble because they’ve been through a vicious emotional shakeup. You don’t have PTSD. Your just mouthy, controlling and abusive and you think you’ve found a calling here giving people with PTSD advice because people here are in fact so needy. You take advantage of their neediness to self serve your own control issues. It’s You Luanne who doesn’t have PTSD or you would be a much nicer kinder person than you are instead of a controlling opinionated battle axe. I’m not intimidated by you, by your threats or by your rude hostile language. . Clean up your act. Stephanie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -LuanneP wrote: > >Peek a boo, I see you!!!!. > >And this is all a stalker has to do to find your name is reply to every post > >on this NG. in the very same way as I just did, right now, and say hello or > >ask if you are interested in visiting a music web, or say nothing at all for > >that matter. . > >Who do you think you’re fooling with your x no archive: yes. ? > >If I was a Stalker, support groups are the first place I would look for > >someone. > >Get real with your  x no archive. You’re all so naive. Were you all born > >yesterday or is this somebody’s idea of a little control game of wit. > >Stephanie > And you ARE a stalker.  Get the FUCK out of here.  You do NOT have PTSD, you > are in here to torment anyone who comes on here for support.  You’re a > ‘wanna-be’ counselor like so many that come on here and self-diagnose > themselves. > Stephanie:  Don’t you care that nobody here likes you?  Go haunt another > newsgroup.  You are not wanted, not liked and not needed.  There are people > here who have diagnosed PTSD and need support.  You are not one of them. > Luanne

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>Was anyone aware that most Stalkers got to be stalkers BECAUSE  they >experienced >serious Trauma in their lives, and in order to deal with the pain, they >displace

You are stalking all of us on here.  Go away.

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hi there gmt, i just read this and now i am getting a l;ittle scarred. what do you mean by security??  Can someone find out who we are and where we live?? I am not all that great on the computer, just learning some stuff and your post said something about "breaching" security. I am sorry to not have any more knowledge about this than I do, but I want to find out what is going on. Hell it was just last week I am posting on this fruitcake stalking me—-hope a person cant "get to ya" through this ng. i will not post any more until i hear something back. thanks

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I think this post of yours also needs to be Archived into history Luanne. I would just like to have it documented that: I’m not interested in kissing your smelly ass or viewing the paperwork that follows it. Thanks  for offering  :) Stephanie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -LuanneP wrote: > >Words like FUCK, STALKER,  TROLL, WANABEE COUNSELOR are acceptable for you ? > In your case, YES!!! > >I don’t buy your PTSD claim Luanne. People with PTSD are humble because > >they’ve > >been through a vicious emotional shakeup. You don’t have PTSD. > BS….that just goes to show how MUCH you know about PTSD.  Why don’t you call > up the VA and ask to see my paperwork? > You don’t have PTSD, and you do not belong here.  Why do you continue to post, > knowing full-well that folks here do not like you? > >t’s You Luanne who doesn’t have PTSD or you would be a much nicer kinder > >person > You don’t know SQUAT!!  Rage is one of the symptoms of PTSD.  Why don’t you go > out and get gang-raped, and then you’ll know where I am coming from??????? > >Clean up your act. > Kiss my ass.

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Please Archive. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -LuanneP wrote: > >Was anyone aware that most Stalkers got to be stalkers BECAUSE  they > >experienced > >serious Trauma in their lives, and in order to deal with the pain, they > >displace > You are stalking all of us on here.  Go away.

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>Peek a boo, I see you!!!!. >And this is all a stalker has to do to find your name is reply to every post >on this NG. in the very same way as I just did, right now, and say hello or >ask if you are interested in visiting a music web, or say nothing at all for >that matter. . >Who do you think you’re fooling with your x no archive: yes. ? >If I was a Stalker, support groups are the first place I would look for >someone. >Get real with your  x no archive. You’re all so naive. Were you all born >yesterday or is this somebody’s idea of a little control game of wit. >Stephanie

And you ARE a stalker.  Get the FUCK out of here.  You do NOT have PTSD, you are in here to torment anyone who comes on here for support.  You’re a ‘wanna-be’ counselor like so many that come on here and self-diagnose themselves. Stephanie:  Don’t you care that nobody here likes you?  Go haunt another newsgroup.  You are not wanted, not liked and not needed.  There are people here who have diagnosed PTSD and need support.  You are not one of them. Luanne

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>Words like FUCK, STALKER,  TROLL, WANABEE COUNSELOR are acceptable for you ?

In your case, YES!!! >I don’t buy your PTSD claim Luanne. People with PTSD are humble because >they’ve >been through a vicious emotional shakeup. You don’t have PTSD.

BS….that just goes to show how MUCH you know about PTSD.  Why don’t you call up the VA and ask to see my paperwork? You don’t have PTSD, and you do not belong here.  Why do you continue to post, knowing full-well that folks here do not like you?   >t’s You Luanne who doesn’t have PTSD or you would be a much nicer kinder >person

You don’t know SQUAT!!  Rage is one of the symptoms of PTSD.  Why don’t you go out and get gang-raped, and then you’ll know where I am coming from??????? >Clean up your act.

Kiss my ass.

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