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PMS…I don’t think so….it can be a real drag sometimes, but I really don’t think you can blame PMS here…obviously there is a problem and I think you and your wife need to sit down and discuss it before period time arrives again next month! Daisy "Jim" <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:abonrj$76j$0@pita.alt.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing > profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that > our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced > people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
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Larry Kessler wrote: > PMS is the universal pretext, available to her at any > time of the month.
Actually, you may be happy to hear that according to my lastest copy of Men’s Health Network News, we, too, may have an opportunity to achieve equality in the "hormonal excuse" department. "Irritable Male Syndrome". Sounds good to me. http://content.health.msn.com/content/article/1685.53143 Best – Fido
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Jim <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:abonrj$76j$0@pita.alt.net… > Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc.
You say you think she exploded for no reason. Did she give you a reason at the time other than PMS?
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"FranL" <fr…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:MPG.1749e5e09e79e165989dd5@news.md.comcast.giganews.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> In article <qjSD8.73188$qU1.16939…@typhoon.nyroc.rr.com>, > jwb3333removethesefourwo…@excite.com says… > > This really exists? > Sure does, but it’s not as common as PMS. The symptoms > compare in severity to those of a Major Depressive > Episode, which makes PMDD difficult to diagnose as a > separate condition… especially if there’s a family > history of depression and/or other mood disorders. The big > difference between the two is that the symptoms and > behaviors of PMDD occur only premenstrually. > It’s too bad that the term PMS has become the catch-all > word used to describe almost ALL "bitchy" behavior in > women. It makes it mighty difficult for those who are > *really* afflicted with PMS and PMDD to be taken seriously.
I never took it seriously until i read about this stuff. You learn something new everyday… and, now that I look back, maybe *that’s* why ex-girlfriend #39 threw the heavy glass thingee at me. JWB
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Did she say it was PMS? * When I first got my period (about 10) it was real bad I was out of school the entire week. I would get horible back craps and the such which led to outbursts. As I got older it got better, but sometimes it’s bad, a few weeks ago I woke up and was angry at the world. Is she like this every month, if not, she might be pregnant again ( some women still have their periods, even if in previous pregnancies they did not)that might explain the outburst. * * "Jim" <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:abonrj$76j$0@pita.alt.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing > profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that > our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced > people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
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Hey J.R.! What’s the matter with you, boy? 133 on the I.Q., and yet married 3 times? Huh? LOL! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -John Riggs wrote: > I’ve had 3 wives…
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Its difficult to know without knowing what the reason was. What you think is nothing, might be something really awful to her. Also, dont blame PMS on your wife getting mad. Sometimes we women just get blazing mad at stuff, like guys. But because society has lampooned PMS for so long, any change in mood is blamed on PMS. Life isnt perfect and if your wife is basically good natured, she is entitled to get crazy angry sometimes, especially if she usually bottles up her feelings. I would suggest you explain to her how you felt about her outburst and then put it behind you. Hanging onto to nonsense will only hurt you both. Ainsley "Jim" <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:abonrj$76j$0@pita.alt.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing > profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that > our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced > people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
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I’m an optimist? 
That 133 was the low one. the official ones put me about 145…the s2bx was 163 IQ. even Dr. Kathy swamps me on these tests. So,….does a higher IQ make us more prone to being divorced? Inquiring minds want to know. Bill in Colorado wrote: > Hey J.R.! What’s the matter with you, boy? 133 on the I.Q., and > yet married 3 times? Huh? > LOL! > John Riggs wrote: >> I’ve had 3 wives…
– Cry havoc! and let loose the dogs of war, That this foul deed shall smell above the earth. With carrion men, groaning for burial. – William Shakespeare (1564-1616), British dramatist, poet. Antony, in Julius Caesar, act 3, sc. 1.
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"Janie" <mac_k…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:Xns920DC1E48E8BCmac@207.106.92.102… > On Mon, 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) wrote: > Of course, I *have* to have this attitude. Not only do I have PTSD, I am > also a multiple with 10 alters including a raging 15 year old who has only > in the past 5 years started accepting any efforts at controling her > behavior. (But I’ve never had PMS 
So it would take a very special guy > indeed who could understand what it means to be a multiple, and could learn > to live with it and still love "all of us", and be patient and tolerant > with the young ones as they continue to grow and get better in therapy. > And I’m still single, no surprise there
If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal? JWB
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Personal issues aside, I did not find that funny in the slightest… Rob "JWB" <jwb3333removethesefourwo…@excite.com> wrote in message
news:6wYD8.75352$qU1.17434893@typhoon.nyroc.rr.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Janie" <mac_k…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:Xns920DC1E48E8BCmac@207.106.92.102… > > On Mon, 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) wrote: > > Of course, I *have* to have this attitude. Not only do I have PTSD, I am > > also a multiple with 10 alters including a raging 15 year old who has only > > in the past 5 years started accepting any efforts at controling her > > behavior. (But I’ve never had PMS So it would take a very special > guy > > indeed who could understand what it means to be a multiple, and could > learn > > to live with it and still love "all of us", and be patient and tolerant > > with the young ones as they continue to grow and get better in therapy. > > And I’m still single, no surprise there > If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal? > JWB
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I didn’t either Rob, but I am typically the humorless one here anyway. Denise — Cowards die many times before their deaths; The valiant never taste of death but once. -Shakespeare- "Robert Curriden" <curri…@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:LEYD8.4413$X%5.4299@newsread1.prod.itd.earthlink.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Personal issues aside, I did not find that funny in the slightest… > Rob > "JWB" <jwb3333removethesefourwo…@excite.com> wrote in message > news:6wYD8.75352$qU1.17434893@typhoon.nyroc.rr.com… > > "Janie" <mac_k…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:Xns920DC1E48E8BCmac@207.106.92.102… > > > On Mon, 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) wrote: > > > Of course, I *have* to have this attitude. Not only do I have PTSD, I > am > > > also a multiple with 10 alters including a raging 15 year old who has > only > > > in the past 5 years started accepting any efforts at controling her > > > behavior. (But I’ve never had PMS So it would take a very special > > guy > > > indeed who could understand what it means to be a multiple, and could > > learn > > > to live with it and still love "all of us", and be patient and tolerant > > > with the young ones as they continue to grow and get better in therapy. > > > And I’m still single, no surprise there > > If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal? > > JWB
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"Robert Curriden" <curri…@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:LEYD8.4413$X%5.4299@newsread1.prod.itd.earthlink.net… > Personal issues aside, I did not find that funny in the slightest… > Rob
to each their own. JWB – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "JWB" <jwb3333removethesefourwo…@excite.com> wrote in message > news:6wYD8.75352$qU1.17434893@typhoon.nyroc.rr.com… > > "Janie" <mac_k…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:Xns920DC1E48E8BCmac@207.106.92.102… > > > On Mon, 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) wrote: > > > Of course, I *have* to have this attitude. Not only do I have PTSD, I > am > > > also a multiple with 10 alters including a raging 15 year old who has > only > > > in the past 5 years started accepting any efforts at controling her > > > behavior. (But I’ve never had PMS So it would take a very special > > guy > > > indeed who could understand what it means to be a multiple, and could > > learn > > > to live with it and still love "all of us", and be patient and tolerant > > > with the young ones as they continue to grow and get better in therapy. > > > And I’m still single, no surprise there > > If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal? > > JWB
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I think a higher I.Q. predisposes you toward insanity, as someone once inferred here. And getting married 3 times sounds like it qualifies there. In fact, getting married even one time…….. Never mind, it’s best to leave sleeping dogs lie…. LOL! (ducking…..) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -John Riggs wrote: > I’m an optimist? > That 133 was the low one. the official ones put me about > 145…the s2bx was 163 IQ. even Dr. Kathy swamps me on these tests. > So,….does a higher IQ make us more prone to being divorced? > Inquiring minds want to know. > Bill in Colorado wrote: >> Hey J.R.! What’s the matter with you, boy? 133 on the I.Q., and >> yet married 3 times? Huh? >> LOL! >> John Riggs wrote: >>> I’ve had 3 wives… > — > Cry havoc! and let loose the dogs of war, That this foul deed shall > smell above the earth. With carrion men, groaning for burial. – > William Shakespeare (1564-1616), British dramatist, poet. Antony, in > Julius Caesar, act 3, sc. 1.
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John Riggs wrote: > I’ve had 3 wives,
Wasn’t that a best-selling cold-war spy novel in the fifties: "I wed thwee wives"? Best – Fido
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Kinda shitty there, bud. "JWB" <jwb3333removethesefourwo…@excite.com> wrote in message
news:6wYD8.75352$qU1.17434893@typhoon.nyroc.rr.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Janie" <mac_k…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:Xns920DC1E48E8BCmac@207.106.92.102… > > On Mon, 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) wrote: > > Of course, I *have* to have this attitude. Not only do I have PTSD, I am > > also a multiple with 10 alters including a raging 15 year old who has only > > in the past 5 years started accepting any efforts at controling her > > behavior. (But I’ve never had PMS So it would take a very special > guy > > indeed who could understand what it means to be a multiple, and could > learn > > to live with it and still love "all of us", and be patient and tolerant > > with the young ones as they continue to grow and get better in therapy. > > And I’m still single, no surprise there > If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal? > JWB
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Can I teach you some humor, Guru? Please? Pretty Please? LOL! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Denise F. Hayden wrote: > I didn’t either Rob, but I am typically the humorless one here anyway. > Denise > — > Cowards die many times before their deaths; > The valiant never taste of death but once. > -Shakespeare- > "Robert Curriden" <curri…@rcn.com> wrote in message > news:LEYD8.4413$X%5.4299@newsread1.prod.itd.earthlink.net… >> Personal issues aside, I did not find that funny in the slightest… >> Rob >> "JWB" <jwb3333removethesefourwo…@excite.com> wrote in message >> news:6wYD8.75352$qU1.17434893@typhoon.nyroc.rr.com… >>> "Janie" <mac_k…@hotmail.com> wrote in message >>> news:Xns920DC1E48E8BCmac@207.106.92.102… >>>> On Mon, 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) >>>> wrote: Of course, I *have* to have this attitude. Not only do I >>>> have PTSD, I am also a multiple with 10 alters including a raging >>>> 15 year old who has only in the past 5 years started accepting any >>>> efforts at controling her behavior. (But I’ve never had PMS >>>> So it would take a very > special >>> guy >>>> indeed who could understand what it means to be a multiple, and >>>> could learn to live with it and still love "all of us", and be >>>> patient and tolerant with the young ones as they continue to grow >>>> and get better in therapy. And I’m still single, no surprise there >>>> >>> If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal? >>> JWB
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"Jim" <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:abonrj$76j$0@pita.alt.net… > Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing > profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that > our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced > people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
Oh I am fucking evil around that time too..not as verbally abusive as your wife, but I could rip out hearts quite easyily and if there is a full moon at the same time, I could kill a few. It sounds like there is more on the menu than PMS…esp if it’s guided directly at you. But then again anything is possible. Doll
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JWB wrote: > If you switched to the 15 y/o during sex, is that illegal?
Actually, as I recall, Janie has discussed that issue before. ——————- From: Janie (Mac_K…@hotmail.com) Subject: Re: Rattlesnake Lesson Newsgroups: alt.support.divorce Date: 2000-10-08 21:57:04 PS … "There are so many special circumstances… just one small example is, its an absolute rule that you can’t have sex with children, so if a child comes out during sex, what’s a guy to do? What if she came out and didn’t identify herself and you just kept on going, unaware? See the dilemma?…" … ——————————— Best – Fido – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> JWB
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Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
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This is "ABUSE", PMS or not. I’ll bet she would not behave this way toward her friends, had they visited yesterday. Your wife may have a problem, but that does not excuse her behavior, If you were an alcoholic and came and abused her, even verbally, there would be hell to pay. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Jim wrote: > Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing > profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that > our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced > people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
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On 13 May 2002 15:58:43 GMT, jim_did…@yahoo.com (Jim) wrote: >Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, >she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo >daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing >profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard >times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that >our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced >people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
Are you kidding? Women are entitled to be as obnoxious and abusive as they please. PMS is the universal pretext, available to her at any time of the month. Men’s duty is to endure women’s bad behavior without complaint. — Fascism: Concentrated private control of wealth, control of information, massive investment/manufacture of arms and military equipment, suppression of labor movements…sound familiar?
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"Jim" <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:abonrj$76j$0@pita.alt.net… > Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, > she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo > daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing > profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that > our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced > people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
screw that "PMS" excuse. That was uncalled for, and there’s probably a reason for it that she’s not telling you. JWB
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"FranL" <fr…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:MPG.1749bb09f319e1ab989dd4@news.md.comcast.giganews.com… > In article <abonrj$76…@pita.alt.net>, > jim_did…@yahoo.com says… > > I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard > > times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS > You’re right… it could be Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder > (PMDD)… in a nutshell, a more severe form of PMS. Anger > (even rage) and irritability are just two in a long list of > physical and psychological symptoms. Do a search.
This really exists? Never knew that. I’ll have to look for it (online, not in my wife JWB
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In alt.support.marriage Jim <jim_did…@yahoo.com> wrote: : Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no reason, : she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave with our 1 yo : daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was stupid and was apologizing : profusely. I was personally quite put off by that show yesterday and have hard : times just forgetting and forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that : our relationship is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced : people, just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven. If she already was *very* upset about something, yes, PMS could have driven her "over the edge", IMHO. Timo — Chamber-pot is spamtrap. Contact me tiwoll at gmx dot net.
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Depends. How much can you tolerate? Maybe getting her to a doc to see if she can get some help for it would be good, because it shouldn’t be that bad that she has to take it out on you or the kids. I’ve had 3 wives, and PMS with them was mostly the frustration coming out from other things going on and PMS was only a good excuse to blow a fuse. Of course, beiing a vet with PTS tends to put a damper on that real quick. so, the reality is for you to figure out what else is going on. The kid is only a year old. What have you done to help her out with the kids? or have you been simply going to work, brininging a check, then flopping down in front of teh tube with a game and a beer and waiting for dinner? Jim wrote: > Just yesterday my wife got really nasty to me for what I think was no > reason, she screamed at me, cursed my parents, threatened to leave > with our 1 yo daughter, etc etc. Today she realized that it was > stupid and was apologizing profusely. I was personally quite put off > by that show yesterday and have hard times just forgetting and > forgiving and believing that it is only PMS and that our relationship > is just as good as before. So, a question to more experienced people, > just how obnoxious a PMSing woman can be for her to be forgiven.
– Cry havoc! and let loose the dogs of war, That this foul deed shall smell above the earth. With carrion men, groaning for burial. – William Shakespeare (1564-1616), British dramatist, poet. Antony, in Julius Caesar, act 3, sc. 1.
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