Trauma – PTSD

Question:

And your mother dropped you on your head. It’s no wonder all your capable of is two liners. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Scott C." wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > …but I thought your mother had a lobotomy ??? > Stephanie wrote: > > Two women using the same coping mechanism. > > Denial. > > Denial is a double edged sword. > > Denial can spare a person from dealing with pain. > > And denial can also destroy a life. > > When you face fearful monsters in your life. It’s always better to face > > your monster, grit your teeth and fight it to death or victory. At least > > either you or your monster will be in one spot, dead or alive,  not > > scattered in painful bleeding jigsaw pieces over an entire  life time. > > Stephanie

Response:

I’m OK with this Laure. I want to move on. I’ve tried ignoring this Luanne and Scott before countless times and get on with my life of responding to serious posts. It’s discouraging though when you try to answer someone posting only to be attacked for what you say from behind by Luanne and Scott.  Serious reply or not, they only had one agenda on their brain and that’s  to bully me off this newsgroup at any cost. It was hard to move ahead with the Pit Bull always trying to mount me. The atmosphere here seems more supportive with you and the group.   Now if I try to respond to someone’s post in a serious way and Luanne or Scott tries to bite my ass, Maybe I can count on one or two of you to club them from behind so that I can move ahead. . Stephanie. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -LAURE82 wrote: > Steph, good post – insightful and on the mark. > Would be good to killfile her at this point, dontcha think? Then we can finally > get down to the business of healing. > She will be moving on once she is totally shunned and ignored, but the > responses to her and hers must be an absolute null. Not a peep. Just getting on > with things that are important, us – as a group and as PTSD survivors. > Whatsherface and her puppets are fun to play with, but for all the playing > we’re missing the intent here, which is to support each other. So, think about > the KILLFILE option. We could actually get a NG started here. > Laur- > Steph – > >Two women using the same coping mechanism.<BR> > >Denial.<BR> > >Denial is a double edged sword.<BR> > >Denial can spare a person from dealing with pain.<BR> > >And denial can also destroy a life.<BR> > ><BR> > >When you face fearful monsters in your life. It’s always better to face<BR> > >your monster, grit your teeth and fight it to death or victory. At least<BR> > >either you or your monster will be in one spot, dead or alive,  not<BR> > >scattered in painful bleeding jigsaw pieces over an entire  life time.<BR>

Response:

Irregardless of what the resident psycho has been posting, just put her into your killfile.. DO you know how to use it? Its specifically a filter in your newsreader which allows you to edit out the screen names and/or subjects you don’t want to view. BTW, just FYI – there is a special unit in every major police station, called Computer Crimes Division. If at any given time you wish to make a formal complaint against her, you have this option. You most certainly have her name, her locale and her various ISPs. To be stalked, ridiculed, defamed or harrassed is simply against THE LAW. Keep this in mind. You have every right to feel safe and protected at all times. Someone who is deliberately set out to cause you harm, in any shape, way or form is infringing on your rights, and breaking the law. In her position – a pending desicion re her *disability* with the VA the last thing she needs now is the added headache of dealing with the police. Believe me. All the more reason to consider bringing charges against her at this time for all the harassment, spamming, forgeries and lies she has been responsible for over the last few months (in your case) and years (in others). Think it over carefully, Stephanie. You have options and you are not alone. Laur

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Thank you Luare. I was advised to get  in touch with the Computer crimes division after the last meeting I had with my isp provider. The detective in charge was on vacation till early Sept. The harassment from Luanne was getting too creative and too thick to handle. If anyone else feels victim of Luanne Marie Pruesner and wants the phone number to her VA. office to register a complaint against the abuse they may be receiving from Luanne.,  I have it.  Anyone who is capable of working  that hard full time at making peoples lives miserable and be that creative should not be receiving any Government disability pension to sit on their ass and create havoc all day with peoples lives. . Also if anyone does feel victimized by Luannes rage, the LMPVictim_s  newsgroup is a good place to register your experiences. I was shocked to discover how many people were already there with personal grievances against Luanne’s reign of tyranny against them. Luanne has a problem but we don’t need to make her problem "Our Problem" She needs to step into line regardless of what she regards as her "unique"  life experiences.  This newsgroup is not a dumping ground for Luannes toxic waste. Stephanie . – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -LAURE82 wrote: > Irregardless of what the resident psycho has been posting, just put her into > your killfile.. DO you know how to use it? Its specifically a filter in your > newsreader which allows you to edit out the screen names and/or subjects you > don’t want to view. > BTW, just FYI – there is a special unit in every major police station, called > Computer Crimes Division. If at any given time you wish to make a formal > complaint against her, you have this option. You most certainly have her name, > her locale and her various ISPs. To be stalked, ridiculed, defamed or harrassed > is simply against THE LAW. > Keep this in mind. You have every right to feel safe and protected at all > times. Someone who is deliberately set out to cause you harm, in any shape, way > or form is infringing on your rights, and breaking the law. > In her position – a pending desicion re her *disability* with the VA the last > thing she needs now is the added headache of dealing with the police. Believe > me. All the more reason to consider bringing charges against her at this time > for all the harassment, spamming, forgeries and lies she has been responsible > for over the last few months (in your case) and years (in others). > Think it over carefully, Stephanie. You have options and you are not alone. > Laur

Response:

Two women using the same coping mechanism. Denial. Denial is a double edged sword. Denial can spare a person from dealing with pain. And denial can also destroy a life. When you face fearful monsters in your life. It’s always better to face your monster, grit your teeth and fight it to death or victory. At least either you or your monster will be in one spot, dead or alive,  not scattered in painful bleeding jigsaw pieces over an entire  life time. Stephanie

Response:

Steph, good post – insightful and on the mark. Would be good to killfile her at this point, dontcha think? Then we can finally get down to the business of healing. She will be moving on once she is totally shunned and ignored, but the responses to her and hers must be an absolute null. Not a peep. Just getting on with things that are important, us – as a group and as PTSD survivors. Whatsherface and her puppets are fun to play with, but for all the playing we’re missing the intent here, which is to support each other. So, think about the KILLFILE option. We could actually get a NG started here. Laur- Steph – – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Two women using the same coping mechanism.<BR> >Denial.<BR> >Denial is a double edged sword.<BR> >Denial can spare a person from dealing with pain.<BR> >And denial can also destroy a life.<BR> ><BR> >When you face fearful monsters in your life. It’s always better to face<BR> >your monster, grit your teeth and fight it to death or victory. At least<BR> >either you or your monster will be in one spot, dead or alive,  not<BR> >scattered in painful bleeding jigsaw pieces over an entire  life time.<BR>

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