Trauma – PTSD

Question:

Hi, I think it would be a great idea  if people did not take it upon themselves to diagnose each other on this ng. Firstly it is not*kosher* in my books and offends me as well as that it can be a trigger for many people. I think the whole diagnosis trip through peoples’ posts and email  is high handed! Not qualifed= do not do it please!!!!!!!!! Helski

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Thank you Helski I really wasn’t sure how to word it and you have done so beautifully on my behalf. Much appreciated Morine helski <hel…@idl.net.au> wrote in message

news:979674425.199274@ns.idl.com.au… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi, > I think it would be a great idea  if people did not take it upon themselves > to diagnose each other on this ng. > Firstly it is not*kosher* in my books and offends me as well as that it can > be a trigger for many people. > I think the whole diagnosis trip through peoples’ posts and email  is high > handed! > Not qualifed= do not do it please!!!!!!!!! > Helski

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Here here Morine!!:) Helski

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helski <hel…@idl.net.au> wrote in message

news:979674425.199274@ns.idl.com.au… > Hi, > I think it would be a great idea  if people did not take it upon themselves > to diagnose each other on this ng. > Firstly it is not*kosher* in my books and offends me as well as that it can > be a trigger for many people. > I think the whole diagnosis trip through peoples’ posts and email  is high > handed! > Not qualifed= do not do it please!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry if I overstepped the bounds of the ng.  I just felt if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck and walks like a duck then it is a duck. I won’t do this again.  Sorry to all. Margaret

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>I just >felt if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck and walks >like a duck then it is a duck. >I won’t do this again.  Sorry to all. >Margaret

I’m not offended Margaret. You had pretty much expressed my thoughts. I don’t think expressing an opinion is a bad thing. It’s not a diagnosis unless you’re qualified to diagnose. You keep on expressing your opinions. Risa Time is money, money is the root of all evil, and knowledge is power. Therefore, procrastination is the key to world peace.

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Its good to have some humorous banter in this NG and its nice to see your reply. What part NZ Morine? Barb

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Nancy <ki…@cris.com> wrote in message

news:940gqu$67t@dispatch.concentric.net… > Hi Cloud Dreamer! > > > oooh how quickly that querey inspired a response. > > > I thank you for your quick response to that particular querey > > > and also note how much else goes untouched. > > I must be missing something???

not really, I was just impressed at how quickly you picked up on that particular querey. > It all started, I think, when I, ticked off because I had just had my cast > off for 24 hours with a clean bill of health from the doctor,

I’m pleased to hear this >twisted (at > least) the same ankle and put the **** cast back on

I hope it heals soon >and then made a snippy > remark in response to Rick’s asking if Morine liked exercise.

no problem at all, one thing I’ve learned don’t sweat the small stuff. > I apologize for the snippy remark about OCD… made halfway in fun … when > I should have kept my writing fingers in their pockets.

Thank you for your apology, really there is no concern and my initla remark in no way related to any of your comments. Feel free to exercise you writing fingers unrestrainedly Morine – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Smile and there will be something to smile about! > Nancy

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Barb and Greg <cook…@primus.com.au> wrote in message news:3a64c672@news.iprimus.com.au… > Its good to have some humorous banter in this NG and its nice to see your > reply. What part NZ Morine? > Barb

Hi Barb ! It’s great to see some ockers here ! , Love it! I think there will always be humorous banter between us residents on both sides of the big Moat. But that is one thing Kiwis and ozzies seem to all enjoy, good ol’ fashioned ribbing and humour. I love humour but NG’s can be so serious sometimes. I’ll  tell you what tho’, my experience is this, Ozzies make some of the best banter/sparring partners and they also make some of the best Mates. Morine

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Morine <h_mor…@hotmail.com> wrote in message

news:94015b$5d1$1@news.wave.co.nz… > Well that is indeed quite possible > gauging the ‘OCD’ that surrounds Ron’s postings > seems there is some obsession surrounding ‘Ron’ > and his / her posting activities. > I would like to take this time to point out that it is likely > the group and ‘Ron’ have become ’sensitised’ to each other. > Perhaps because of that sensitisation and triggering nothing that either > party says can now ammend the > rift?

I gave Ron a second chance incase his earlier blowup was a one off.  It wasn’t. Ron has more going on than PTSD, I checked the DSM IV that I have, and he does not fit PTSD so much,  but rather Borderline and Narcissistic  Personality Disorders, based on his posts.  I have killfiled him as there does not seem to be a way to reason with him, caused no doubt by the above.  Ron can  seem to be a wonderful helpful person and later become very abusive. Margaret

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -margaret szedenits wrote: > Morine <h_mor…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:94015b$5d1$1@news.wave.co.nz… > > Well that is indeed quite possible > > gauging the ‘OCD’ that surrounds Ron’s postings > > seems there is some obsession surrounding ‘Ron’ > > and his / her posting activities. > > I would like to take this time to point out that it is > likely > > the group and ‘Ron’ have become ’sensitised’ to each > other. > > Perhaps because of that sensitisation and triggering > nothing that either > > party says can now ammend the > > rift? > I gave Ron a second chance incase his earlier blowup was a > one off.  It wasn’t. Ron has more going on than PTSD, I > checked the DSM IV that I have, and he does not fit PTSD so > much,  but rather Borderline and Narcissistic  Personality > Disorders, based on his posts.  I have killfiled him as > there does not seem to be a way to reason with him, caused > no doubt by the above.  Ron can  seem to be a wonderful > helpful person and later become very abusive.

Cheque is in the mail for the unsolicited medical diagnosis, doc.

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Barb and Greg <cook…@primus.com.au> wrote in message news:3a63aefc$1@news.iprimus.com.au… > Morine, > the All Blacks got thumped by the greatest rugby team of all time the > Wallabies.

well let’s not get too cocky about this !! After all I did use the word ‘historically’ somewhere in there. >The kiwis went into the depth of despair never seen before, > blaming their fearless leader.

hhhhm ( ‘triggers’ ?) >Now I am a naturalised aussie ( after living > here for 21 years)

oooh traitor !!! >I am a loyal fan to the aussies.

(pulse beginning to speed up) >Of course ex All Blacks > such as Grant Batty has settled in this city of Brisbane

I’ve been to Brisbane Seen the big Pineapple too! Amazing lightening displays! > Tenaciousness is not restricted to the land of the long white cloud and > sheep although I heard sheep numbers are now out numbered by cows. MOOOO

I’ll give you Moooo in a minute matey !!!! You just come over here and say that !!

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Hi Cloud Dreamer! > > oooh how quickly that querey inspired a response. > > I thank you for your quick response to that particular querey > > and also note how much else goes untouched. > I must be missing something???

It all started, I think, when I, ticked off because I had just had my cast off for 24 hours with a clean bill of health from the doctor, twisted (at least) the same ankle and put the **** cast back on and then made a snippy remark in response to Rick’s asking if Morine liked exercise. I apologize for the snippy remark about OCD… made halfway in fun … when I should have kept my writing fingers in their pockets. Smile and there will be something to smile about! Nancy

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Crafty Bernardo <craftyberna…@netzero.net> wrote in message

news:eb376toae9brahsvhib6kc6l5g1gl6da23@4ax.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> On Tue, 16 Jan 2001 08:31:56 +1300, "Morine" <h_mor…@hotmail.com> > wrote: > >Crafty Bernardo <craftyberna…@netzero.net> wrote in message > >news:nh746to8f1k3vb15hs9f7h7s3m1e5b5592@4ax.com… > >> What do you think about exercise, lol? > >> Rick > >I think I do too much > >;-) > >Morine > Glad you took it as I intended, I was just being playful. > Rick

Thanks To date you have given me no particular cause to think otherwise. For now, we are not / have not been sensitised to each other, therfor I have no reason to think your comment anything other than playful. Morine

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In article <93vogn$38…@news.wave.co.nz>,   "Morine" <h_mor…@hotmail.com> wrote: > What’s OCD ? > Morine

Obsessive compulsive disorder. .. Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/

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This thread is funny.  In all seriousness though I was just reading the "Physician and Sports Medicine" journal that obsessive exercising  does *not* have any pathological mental consequences.  Bummer, another excuse down the drain. ; ) Huffing and Puffing, Margaret

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Cloud Dreamer <cloudrea…@my-deja.com> wrote in message

news:93vpts$50e$1@nnrp1.deja.com… > In article <93vogn$38…@news.wave.co.nz>, >   "Morine" <h_mor…@hotmail.com> wrote: > > What’s OCD ? > > Morine > Obsessive compulsive disorder.

Well that is indeed quite possible gauging the ‘OCD’ that surrounds Ron’s postings seems there is some obsession surrounding ‘Ron’ and his / her posting activities. I would like to take this time to point out that it is likely the group and ‘Ron’ have become ’sensitised’ to each other. Perhaps because of that sensitisation and triggering nothing that either party says can now ammend the rift? Just taking a new tack Oh by the way I think Obsessive isn’t so bad perhaps it arises from passion? If one is passionate about life, learning and living then that is all good eh? Morine

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Crafty Bernardo <craftyberna…@netzero.net> wrote in message

news:0jl66to84073venflqpfdfpin7l7mi5q89@4ax.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> On 15 Jan 2001 04:19:09 GMT, "Nancy" <ki…@cris.com> wrote: > >Hi Rick! > >> What do you think about exercise, lol? > >She is correct, but I was wondering about OCD myself > >Smile and there will be something to smile about! > >Nancy > Hey Nancy, > LOL, all in good fun:-)~ > Rick

yes yes what fun ! some of the most interesting people i have met are both passionate and obsessive about what they do. in some passion and obsession perhaps inspires greatness in their field of endeavour, in others it merely confuses and unsettles them. oh what fun !! Morine

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margaret szedenits <mszeden…@mediaone.net> wrote in message

news:VzK86.13670$ft6.253607@typhoon.mw.mediaone.net… > This thread is funny.  In all seriousness though I was just > reading the "Physician and Sports Medicine" journal that > obsessive exercising  does *not* have any pathological > mental consequences.  Bummer, another excuse down the drain. > ; ) > Huffing and Puffing, > Margaret

I seen some great bods built from excessive exercise hhhm yummmy !! nothing wrong with a little passion creating obsession or is it obsession creating passion ? Morine

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Cloud Dreamer <cloudrea…@my-deja.com> wrote in message

news:93vpts$50e$1@nnrp1.deja.com… > In article <93vogn$38…@news.wave.co.nz>, >   "Morine" <h_mor…@hotmail.com> wrote: > > What’s OCD ? > > Morine > Obsessive compulsive disorder.

oooh how quickly that querey inspired a response. I thank you for your quick response to that particular querey and also note how much else goes untouched. Easy to determine the *level* upon which ng’s operate,  by what the participants choose to answer and what they don’t answer. I guess us kiwis, being raised in the historically great rugby nation that it has been, are socialised to *tackle* all manner of things in manner that hopefully inspires thought (if not response) in others. Morine

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Morine, the All Blacks got thumped by the greatest rugby team of all time the Wallabies. The kiwis went into the depth of despair never seen before, blaming their fearless leader. Now I am a naturalised aussie ( after living here for 21 years) I am a loyal fan to the aussies. Of course ex All Blacks such as Grant Batty has settled in this city of Brisbane Tenaciousness is not restricted to the land of the long white cloud and sheep although I heard sheep numbers are now out numbered by cows. MOOOO

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In article <94034d$5r…@news.wave.co.nz>,   "Morine" <h_mor…@hotmail.com> wrote: > oooh how quickly that querey inspired a response. > I thank you for your quick response to that particular querey > and also note how much else goes untouched.

I must be missing something??? .. Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/

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LOLOL.  inquiring minds want to know =)

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Hi Rick! > What do you think about exercise, lol?

She is correct, but I was wondering about OCD myself Smile and there will be something to smile about! Nancy

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Crafty Bernardo <craftyberna…@netzero.net> wrote in message

news:nh746to8f1k3vb15hs9f7h7s3m1e5b5592@4ax.com… > What do you think about exercise, lol? > Rick

I think I do too much Morine

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Nancy <ki…@cris.com> wrote in message

news:93ttnt$61u@dispatch.concentric.net… > Hi Rick! > > What do you think about exercise, lol? > She is correct, but I was wondering about OCD myself > Smile and there will be something to smile about! > Nancy

What’s OCD ? Morine

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