Trauma – PTSD

Question:

If my email to Larry was stalking then Larry really is in trouble. As posted in follow-ups, it was an email of concern, removed from the newsgroup so as not to PUBLICLY attack you in ANY way.  I didn’t want to post what I wrote here because I didn’t want to offend you with my concern. STALKING?????????? Larry, as you wrote before, perhaps you are seeing tigers where there is merely tree bark?  I’m speechless now and won’t bother to read or respond or care about your posts okay? You should be happy with that and we’ll just call it a "draw" and I won’t be concerned about you at all since you don’t seem to be able to discern the difference between GENUINE CONCERN and STALKING (????) ::::::::::shaking head::::::::: Get help Larry, I know I am and it is a good thing. Kristine (unafraid to post here now that you dragged a personal concern to the ng.)

Response:

Larry wrote: >But I warned you that anyone >who sends me a nasty email at home >gets it posted.

<sarcasm on> Damn Kristine. You are one wicked, nasty person. I can’t believe you sent such a mean email to someone. I can’t believe you could ask if Larry was alright and tell him to take care. The nerve of some people. <sarcasm off> >Oh, and keep in mind >there is always alt.war.vietnam (BTW alt.war just goes after enemies on the >newsgroups, they think stalking is below them). How many new posters steered >away from the NG while that was going on. All I need to do is pop over there >and they’ll be here.

I have to agree with Kristine that paranoia seems to be a little strong right now. When did this support group become enemies? And of whom? I’m sorry the war is on again for you Larry. I hope you get some help soon. We now return you to your regularly scheduled program. Risa You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy.

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>Oh, and keep in mind >there is always alt.war.vietnam (BTW alt.war just goes after enemies on the >newsgroups, they think stalking is below them). How many new posters steered >away from the NG while that was going on. All I need to do is pop over there >and they’ll be here. >Larry L

Larry, No one is forgetting what a.w.v.  did to this ng. I think you would be wise to remember that it was you they were after and you are the one who brought them into our haven. Yet most of us defended you or told you to take it somewhere else and we in fact were ridiculed and driven from the ng. Yet you remain, not having learned a damn thing from it and now threatning to do the same once again. Go for it, go get them.  We will sit another one out and it too shall pass. Where will you be then?

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Larry, I hope I’m not going to upset you here, you know I’d never do that intentionally I hope?  I really didn’t take this message from Kris to be in a negative intent.  We all speak in different ways……..you know, use our own phrases and such.  To me it reads real concern for a friend who is going through a hard time right now.  Someone who is concerned with your welfare, as many of us here are.  I think I can safely say ‘we’ve all been over the edge’ at different times here.  I know I have, and I remember Kris lashing out from time to time, and Luanne…..and lots of others.  The difference in the past was people’s nerves weren’t quite so shattered.  More of us were ‘together’ and able to step back and calmly try to ‘help’ rather than ‘react’.  It’s okay to post here when you’re falling apart……..and it’s okay for people to try and pull you back towards reality.  Remember how we all have different styles of posting, some of us use ‘a more soft touch’ and others say ‘hey Larry, snap out of it’…….but it’s all ‘meant’ in the same way.  Think of it sort of like ’some people would come up to you and give you a hug……..hold on to you…….and then somebody else might might ‘grab you by the arms……slap you across the face……and say…….Hey Lar…….snap out of it!’ ((((hugs))))  td – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hey Larry, I’m not going to tell you your business, but you sound really > paranoid right now. I’m not sure why you’re on this Sam thing, but hey, are > you alright or what??????? > Luanne didn’t attack you, she asked a question to find out who the hell you > were…you know her wording is hard, that’s her. Hey, find out what’s up and > take care okay? > Kristine > Read, Kris. It would make you look less foolish. > Larry L

Response:

I guess you guys are more stupid than I thought. Kris is still pissed off because I told her off a while back in an email, so in a way it’s Tit for tat. But can’t she read posts or is one of you just passing something along to her because she’s too lazy to read the NG? But I warned you that anyone who sends me a nasty email at home gets it posted. You girls don’t get yet, do you? You might block me out but then where would the fun be, you are doing this for fun aren’t you? What you don’t seem to see is that new posters are going to see my posts. Who in their right mind, even if they have PTSD would post on a NG when if they piss one of the regulars off they will stalk you at home and call their friends in to do the same. You know, if no new posters come to this NG then you won’t have anyone to play with and eventually tear apart when you get tired of them. Oh, and keep in mind there is always alt.war.vietnam (BTW alt.war just goes after enemies on the newsgroups, they think stalking is below them). How many new posters steered away from the NG while that was going on. All I need to do is pop over there and they’ll be here. Anyway, here’s stalker Kris’s email. Hey Larry, I’m not going to tell you your business, but you sound really paranoid right now. I’m not sure why you’re on this Sam thing, but hey, are you alright or what??????? Luanne didn’t attack you, she asked a question to find out who the hell you were…you know her wording is hard, that’s her. Hey, find out what’s up and take care okay? Kristine Read, Kris. It would make you look less foolish. Larry L

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