Question:
Hi amophia! > I am new to the group
————snipped for brevity ———– > I am feeling like I am losing my life… > my kids don’t need me this way… > I see a councilor…I am on meds….just nothing seems to work…. > we have tried a marriage councilor too….HELP!!!!
Welcome to the group. I am sorry that you seem to qualify. Something to think about: ‘nothing seems to work’ or, is it, nothing seems to work they way I want it to work. ??? I’ve been there and done that many times in my life. :/ Smile and there will be something to smile about! Nancy
Response:
Hello amophia, Welcome. First thing…….. breath. Stop for a moment, whatever you’re doing. Take a breath. That’s how I’m learning to deal with this stuff. Take a breath. Cry your eyes out if you need to. Punch a pillow. Put on some music that makes you smile and your feet feel like dancing. The best revenge against your abusers is………….. having a GOOD life. No one deserves abuse. No one deserves neglect. You are SOMEBODY. Take care, and again, welcome. Z55 Nancy <ki…@coxinvalid.net> wrote in message
news:Xns93454E8F1A3BFkipcocoxinvalidnet@68.1.17.6… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi amophia! > > I am new to the group > ————snipped for brevity ———– > > I am feeling like I am losing my life… > > my kids don’t need me this way… > > I see a councilor…I am on meds….just nothing seems to work…. > > we have tried a marriage councilor too….HELP!!!! > Welcome to the group. I am sorry that you seem to qualify. > Something to think about: ‘nothing seems to work’ or, is it, nothing > seems to work they way I want it to work. ??? > I’ve been there and done that many times in my life. :/ > Smile and there will be something to smile about! > Nancy
Response:
I am new to the group I have been abused from the age of 2 till about the age of 15 (sexually, some physical and emotional) and from 16 to about 22 emotional strain also at 15 I had a child from one of the many rapes that happened to me. I raised him till he was 11 then gave him up for adoption..He has had a very rough life…I know where he is and how he is doing…anyway I have had ptsd now for most of my life…and I am on social security cause of problems caused by this my life right now is not going to well… my marriage is falling apart…which he is a great guy…just lazy 
cause of my problems we have a very hard time talking to each other with out yelling or being nasty or negative towards each other I am feeling like I am losing my life… my kids don’t need me this way… I see a councilor…I am on meds….just nothing seems to work…. we have tried a marriage councilor too….HELP!!!! I want my marriage to work… I better quit rambling….but I don’t know what else to do. — —————-Have a nice day!!!——————– In the beginning, God created earth and rested. Then God created man and rested. Then God created woman. Since then, neither God nor man has rested.
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