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In article <3A4B8348.D1A7A…@magma.ca>, Dawn Black <ddbl…@magma.ca> wrote: > just thought i would say its been nice, but it seems that i have said > something that offends too many people. > therefore, i am leaving.
Dawn my dear, I have read all the posts and I detect no offense at what you have written. If anything some like myself have been pleased to look at the differences between pstd and bpd – we’re all interested in each others dx and experiences. Please do not feel you have to go. Really I can see no reason to run away, and if anyone does start to give a hard time I am happy to run interference for you. I hope it’s not too patronising, but aren’t you doing a classic BPD thing here… Anyway hope to see you around here some more Love Angelo Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
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It does doesn’t it? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Angelo wrote: > In article <3A4B8348.D1A7A…@magma.ca>, > Dawn Black <ddbl…@magma.ca> wrote: > > just thought i would say its been nice, but it seems that i have said > > something that offends too many people. > > therefore, i am leaving. > Dawn my dear, > I have read all the posts and I detect no offense at what you have > written. If anything some like myself have been pleased to look at the > differences between pstd and bpd – we’re all interested in each others > dx and experiences. > Please do not feel you have to go. Really I can see no reason to run > away, and if anyone does start to give a hard time I am happy to run > interference for you. I hope it’s not too patronising, but aren’t you > doing a classic BPD thing here… > Anyway hope to see you around here some more > Love > Angelo > Sent via Deja.com > http://www.deja.com/
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> P.S. Angelo made an astute observation. Maybe its your chance to fight > your illness by not running away from us. Even if you accurately read > some offense (which I don’t think you did), no one hates you for your > views. Anger doesn’t equal hatred.
Victoria – this is the most important thing anyone has said to me in awhile that anger doesn’t equal hatred. I had my boyfriend tell me this today. I accused him of being angry at me and therefore hating me… (It was a long drawn out episode instigated by me trying to make a decision to go out or not with him and some of his friends). Anyways, i told him that he must hate me.. because he was angry and he said no, "I love you." I don’t know.. do many bpd’ers equate anger with hatred? Thanks for the reinforcement. Dawn
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just thought i would say its been nice, but it seems that i have said something that offends too many people. therefore, i am leaving.
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I’m new here but please don’t leave…i don’t think anyone was TRULY offended! I think it was a very good point for debate and that is exactly what is happening…ppl are debating a good point that you brought up. Let’s face it PTSD is an extremely touchy subject and it is going to hit a nerve but I think most of us realize that we all have our own opinions and a right to them and that includes you! 
Please don’t go…Go back and look at Angelo’s reply to your message on trauma and also read through the well-wishers responding to your ‘christmas past’ post. I think for the most part the responses on this list are from the heart and i also think that possibly we ALL misinterpret things…particularly when they are in written form… faeriewings ((((dawn)))) "Dawn Black" <ddbl…@magma.ca> wrote in message
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