Question:
>I am NOT responding to every post.
You are responding to EVERY single post, just as you used to. That is why so many people have left before. Luanne
Response:
>In my understanding, Bill left to go live somewhere tropical, and has been >back a few times
Wrong again! Bill has left this newsgroup, and has not left for the tropics yet. He’s sick of the people like you on here. I oughta know. I talk to him on the phone. > will not allow you to pile my >plate with what does not belong to me.
Why? You have a list, so pile all your shit on there. >Who’s trying to moderate who?
You tried to moderate that new gal who just started posting, giving her all sorts of rules. I hope that she is not paying attention to YOU of all people. You’re a PTSD-Wanna-Be. Lu
Response:
this is harsh, even for you, Lu. I don’t know why I expected you to be any different, or this place to be any different. I guess some things and some people never change. Nice to see you posting again Bill – you always have good, thoughtful info to share. ~ Renee LuanneP <luan…@aol.comet> wrote in message
news:19990527215006.08829.00009810@ng-ch1.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >In my understanding, Bill left to go live somewhere tropical, and has been > >back a few times > Wrong again! Bill has left this newsgroup, and has not left for the tropics > yet. He’s sick of the people like you on here. I oughta know. I talk to him > on the phone. > > will not allow you to pile my > >plate with what does not belong to me. > Why? You have a list, so pile all your shit on there. > >Who’s trying to moderate who? > You tried to moderate that new gal who just started posting, giving her all > sorts of rules. I hope that she is not paying attention to YOU of all people. > You’re a PTSD-Wanna-Be. > Lu
Response:
>Nice to see you posting again Bill – you always have good, thoughtful info >to share.
Yes, and as you can see….he noted that many of the ‘lighter PTSD cases’ (he has seen it on this newsgroup and mailing lists) become self-appointed experts on PTSD. Lu
Response:
LuanneP <luan…@aol.comet> wrote > Yes, and as you can see….he noted that many of the ‘lighter PTSD cases’ (he > has seen it on this newsgroup and mailing lists) become self-appointed > experts on PTSD.
the only person who ever called me an expert is you Lu. Not me, not anyone else. You are the only one. I hope I have made this abundantly clear now – how many times do I have to say it for you to get it through your head? I never claimed to have answers for anyone else – most of the time I don’t even have them for myself! I am struggling along just like everyone else. I thought the point of this NG was to help each other ??? How can you help anyone when you are so busy judging and attacking people? Don’t you have anything else to do with your time? ~ Renee If the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to treat everything like a nail.
Response:
>the only person who ever called me an expert is you Lu.
Re-read Bill’s post from earlier today.
Response:
> I thought the point of this NG was to help each other ???
Your comments on EVERY SINGLE post do not help me one bit. I do not feel that I can respond to anyone without you ‘butting in’ with your .02 cents worth, and I mean on EVERY post!!!
Response:
Lu, why do you respond twice to every post I send? If you don’t want to read my posts to this public forum, then don’t. The choice is up to you. Bill did not mention any names in his post. Does he need you to speak for him? I think not! If Bill has something to say to me, he is MORE than capable of speaking to me directly. Lu, there were many letters in the last week I did not respond to – you are making yourself look very foolish. ~ Renee LuanneP <luan…@aol.comet> wrote in message
news:19990528144222.01632.00007985@ng-cg1.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> > I thought the point of this NG was to help each other ??? > Your comments on EVERY SINGLE post do not help me one bit. I do not feel that > I can respond to anyone without you ‘butting in’ with your .02 cents worth, and > I mean on EVERY post!!!
Response:
Emma wrote > x-no-archive: yes > Hey Lu, > I’m confused. I just read over Renee’s recent posts and didn’t see anything > offensive or out of line. I get the idea there’s some history going on here. Is > there something Renee did/does that we should all know, or is it just an old > feud?
Thank you Emma. Lu has an old beef with me that for some reason she can’t let go. Seems she needs someone to attack, and many of us have been through this with her, unfortunately. You have seen the nature of my posts, you decide for yourself. blessings, Renee
Response:
Scott, I am not here to flame or be flamed. I have both admired and appreciated your rational posts over the past few days, and am glad you are here to be the voice of reason. blessings, Renee Anyone can handle a crisis – it’s this day to day living that’s tough! Scott C. wrote – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> x-no-archive: yes > Hiya Emma, > I’ll stick my snout in here too 
Lu’s point, and it stems from > the past, was that Renee tends to respond to all/most posts with a > tendancy to offer somewhat "expert" advice. Renee countered, Lu > countered, etc., etc and we have a little skirmish. My advice to all is > to sit back for a bit….don’t hit the send button. To my friend > Lu…try the "delete" key for a while on Renee’s posts….to Renee, try > to see where Lu is coming from and not be quick to comment to all posts. > Or…you can both focus on flaming me for a while 
> Take care, Scott
Response:
what can I do when I feel for my children when during adolescence 13 & 17 years old they have conflict with a sporting committee that is very harsh and great injustice is being done to them. I take it personally and just cry, like now ‘cos I cannot deal with dominating and powerful people. My partner has been a dream the past year and he has been the one to help out talking (more like they were screaming to him last night) to this committee of a family-father zone co-ordinator, mother secretary, daughter who ticks off attendance’s and son same age height and weight division as my own. It boils down to that this family feels my son is a real threat to theirs in a competition. It is judo. I feel so powerless, the sense of injustice is strong all those traits that affected me when I was assaulted a year ago. Ta Barb —
Response:
>Barb, I’m sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. Don’t >know what I can do to help, but I am here to listen if you want to talk.
Jesus Christ, Renee…..I see you are back, responding to every single damn post on here. I don’t get it…….That’s what happened the last time when everybody got angry. You were responding you .02 cents worth on here to EVERY single post, as though you are a PTSD specialist, but yet, you don’t even take meds. I don’t understand it….. I am not trying to pick a fight with yuo, but why do you do this? You have a family, a life, but you feel it is necessary to respond to every post on this ng. That’s why Bill and some other great members left. A comment here and there, yes, but….I recall you telling somebody who was suicidal to ‘breathe, breathe.’ Renee, that’s not right. You are not a PTSD expert, and responding and answering every single post on the ng does not make you one. Luanne
Response:
Jeez Lu, chill out. take one of your meds, maybe that will help calm you down. I NEVER claimed to be an expert in anything, that is a title you gave me. I am NOT responding to every post. I am not even reading every post (though of course you have no way of knowing that). In my understanding, Bill left to go live somewhere tropical, and has been back a few times, according to what I have read. I will not take responsibility for what is not mine, Lu, and I will not allow you to pile my plate with what does not belong to me. I offered support and you are attacking me for some reason I do not understand. This NG is PUBLIC, meaning you do not own it, you do not control me, and I will not be treated this way. Who’s trying to moderate who? Back off Lu. ~ Renee _____________________ LuanneP wrote – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >Barb, I’m sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. Don’t > >know what I can do to help, but I am here to listen if you want to talk. > Jesus Christ, Renee…..I see you are back, responding to every single damn > post on here. I don’t get it…….That’s what happened the last time when > everybody got angry. You were responding you .02 cents worth on here to EVERY > single post, as though you are a PTSD specialist, but yet, you don’t even take > meds. I don’t understand it….. > I am not trying to pick a fight with yuo, but why do you do this? You have a > family, a life, but you feel it is necessary to respond to every post on this > ng. That’s why Bill and some other great members left. > A comment here and there, yes, but….I recall you telling somebody who was > suicidal to ‘breathe, breathe.’ Renee, that’s not right. You are not a PTSD > expert, and responding and answering every single post on the ng does not make > you one. > Luanne
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