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Nancy _ I’m trying…….but it is hard…especially in these days of clouds………………………I need friends………I’ve isolated myself to the point of being competely alone, and afraid to go out……..the friends that were c hecking on me in the beginning bailed when they realized this was real…………………..its really scary being alone, an d there are nights I don’t know If I"ll make it…..not that I’ll hurt myself…..its just the overwhelming feeling of the wonderful panic attack………………………………………………………….. ………………..so…here’s to 1998……………………………Please (I’m begging) be better Pooh
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Hi Pooh! As alone as I am now, it is a lot better than being alone in a marriage. I do believe that it is not good for me to lean heavily on another person for my sanity. Until I get better, I think that being alone and not having to deal with 2 people going insane in the same house is not such a bad thing. Smile and there will be something to smile about! Nancy
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kipco wrote: > Hi Pooh! > As alone as I am now, it is a lot better than being alone in a marriage. > I do believe that it is not good for me to lean heavily on another > person for my sanity. Until I get better, I think that being alone and > not having to deal with 2 people going insane in the same house is not > such a bad thing. > Smile and there will be something to smile about! > Nancy
Very true. I was leaning heavily on someone who needed to lean heavily on me. We couldn’t do it together. I am now able to focus on my recovery. Jean — To reply or attempt to send spam then please remove NO and the word spam from the address. "The human race has suffered for centuries and is still suffering from the mental disorder known as religion, and atheism is the only physician that will be able to effect a permanent cure." (Joseph Lewis) For the spambots: rhu…@fcc.gov, jque…@fcc.gov, ab…@fcc.gov
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who else has had problems with spouses or sign. others who "don’t get it"……and its tearing away at your relationship….they people you chhose to support and confide in have now turened against you and are calling you names and being non supportive……well its happened to me…and it hurts like a sob……….i realized if this was a REAL (ha ha) life test how would they have reacted……ie…cancer…….probably the same snotty, selfcentered way……so now that the tons of us are alone we need to let each other know the hardes thing i did was dump my boyfirencd 5 days before x-mas…i love him, but that is just not enouth……not with a total misunderstanding of ptsd in his mind……….it will hurt, for a long time, and I’m sure to find no one else , but that’s ok….I’ve got my dogs…and tigger…lol./……..POOH
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Hi Pooh! Yes. Smile and there will be something to smile about! Nancy
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