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oh when i was telling my s.o. about the post i wrote earlier about the feet to the leg to the private parts/restless foot syndrome but feels like shocks,and stimulation i forgot to mention that when it hits the hands too sometimes[i did say hands before] it then shots to my mouth see i am starting to really accept that this must obviously be some body memory some pavloven like body reponse learned in early childhood is it? you know that sex was done and then remembered and re expeirenced via body memory at certain times of day or year? or is it really shocks like i said like non painful shocks on the bottom of my feet radiating upwards thru my legs into private part and hands to mouth sometimes this is for real guys this has happened to me and makes sleeping even with meds difficult i can almost never sleep thru the nite unless a tremendous amount of sex first maybe like then it wont happen again while i am sleeping at nite time? please anybody know about this? thankyou c
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -eloise wrote: > oh when i was telling my s.o. about the post i wrote earlier about the > feet to the leg to the private parts/restless foot syndrome but feels > like shocks,and stimulation > i forgot to mention that when it hits the hands too sometimes[i did > say hands before] it then shots to my mouth > see i am starting to really accept that this must obviously be some > body memory > some pavloven like body reponse learned in early childhood > is it? > you know that sex was done and then remembered and re expeirenced via > body memory at certain times of day or year? > or is it really shocks > like i said like non painful shocks on the bottom of my feet radiating > upwards thru my legs into private part > and hands to mouth sometimes > this is for real guys > this has happened to me and makes sleeping even with meds difficult > i can almost never sleep thru the nite > unless a tremendous amount of sex first > maybe like then it wont happen again while i am sleeping at nite time? > please anybody know about this? > thankyou
Eloise, I get heavy rapid tremors starting in my foot, working their way up both legs. Many times it includes tremors in my hands and arms, until most of my body is shaking. Generally I get them at the start and/or during a panic attack. It’s one way I know when the panic is subsiding, when the tremors lessen. I too had sexual trauma as a kid. I haven’t tried sex to calm the tremors, for two reasons. First, I don’t think I’d care to try sex during a panic attack. Second, my sexual activity before starting therapy was a bit on the addiction side, and in gaining my sobriety I’ve set a period of abstinence. My wife has told me she has left the bed a number of times over the past month as the shaking during my sleep awakens her. Sometimes it’s full body tremors, sometimes not.
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hi thaks for writing me back its both leg things but different ,my ex had severe post traumatic stress from childhood abuse and he had exactly what you describe with huge movements and he also had nite sweats and screamed,he jumps to any noise etc we didnt know 20 years ago thats what it was,he has taken tofrinal all his adult life but what helped him the most was therapy and talking about his father i know i should probably do that too ,but i am too scared too,and also couldnt do it even if i wanted to as i have had amnesia of him since he died when i was 8 some parts know him and are scared of him,but i dont wanta know him but maybe if i did try to get over it as they say in therapy,well then maybe i could sleep at nite the leg thing is different though its from childhood and i still dont know why by by love c "James P. Mock" <jpm…@ix.netcom.com> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->eloise wrote: >> oh when i was telling my s.o. about the post i wrote earlier about the >> feet to the leg to the private parts/restless foot syndrome but feels >> like shocks,and stimulation >> i forgot to mention that when it hits the hands too sometimes[i did >> say hands before] it then shots to my mouth >> see i am starting to really accept that this must obviously be some >> body memory >> some pavloven like body reponse learned in early childhood >> is it? >> you know that sex was done and then remembered and re expeirenced via >> body memory at certain times of day or year? >> or is it really shocks >> like i said like non painful shocks on the bottom of my feet radiating >> upwards thru my legs into private part >> and hands to mouth sometimes >> this is for real guys >> this has happened to me and makes sleeping even with meds difficult >> i can almost never sleep thru the nite >> unless a tremendous amount of sex first >> maybe like then it wont happen again while i am sleeping at nite time? >> please anybody know about this? >> thankyou >Eloise, >I get heavy rapid tremors starting in my foot, working their way up both >legs. Many times it includes tremors in my hands and arms, until most of >my body is shaking. Generally I get them at the start and/or during a >panic attack. It’s one way I know when the panic is subsiding, when the >tremors lessen. >I too had sexual trauma as a kid. >I haven’t tried sex to calm the tremors, for two reasons. First, I don’t >think I’d care to try sex during a panic attack. Second, my sexual >activity before starting therapy was a bit on the addiction side, and in >gaining my sobriety I’ve set a period of abstinence. >My wife has told me she has left the bed a number of times over the past >month as the shaking during my sleep awakens her. Sometimes it’s full body >tremors, sometimes not.
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I have heard of body memories like this, electric shock. Very painful. Then I have also seen restless foot/leg syndrome. I think they are different… You will know, trust yourself, what ever it is. Some part inside of you knows if this is a memory. I have these weird female body memories, never have really uncovered them, but they come mostly when I am just about to fall asleep. I have also heard of people (survivors, men and women) having to have sex before they got to bed EVERY night, especially if they were sexually abused at that time of the night as a child. Our bodies truyl remember, don’t they???? I believe this can be healed and changed. I did Hakomi therapy for six years, (combination of many therapies, feel the feelings, rescue the child, change what you told yourself) and then I still suffered from depression, ptsd, etc. So now I am doing EMDR““““`and I feel some change with leaving my body and depression! I really have hope now, I thought I may never be able to go back to work. Or quit leaving my body, or suffer with depression. Are you a ritual abuse survivor? Ro James P. Mock <jpm…@ix.netcom.com> wrote in article <3422E82E.A0C4A…@ix.netcom.com>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –
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