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|Dear Kathy | |Next time you are upset about something, could you please just tell |me and not throw it in my face when you are angry? | I am not a mindreader, when I asked you whether you |wanted to talk about it and you said no, I didn’t |want to put you under pressure. |So, now I am the asshole. | |Skree | |
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Dear Kathy Next time you are upset about something, could you please just tell me and not throw it in my face when you are angry? I am not a mindreader, when I asked you whether you wanted to talk about it and you said no, I didn’t want to put you under pressure. So, now I am the asshole. Skree
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Bill G; Why would you respond to this sweet child’s pain, in such a cruel manner? I notice this is your only contribution, today. I hope you are very proud of yourself. No one else is. Kiesha – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – blah blah blah |Dear Kathy | |Next time you are upset about something, could you please just tell |me and not throw it in my face when you are angry? | I am not a mindreader, when I asked you whether you |wanted to talk about it and you said no, I didn’t |want to put you under pressure. |So, now I am the asshole. | |Skree
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Did responding to this post make you feel **Special**, it sure showed everyone how **Special** you are. In fact you were able to show us how handy a kill file is. Tim;) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – blah blah blah |Dear Kathy | |Next time you are upset about something, could you please just tell |me and not throw it in my face when you are angry? | I am not a mindreader, when I asked you whether you |wanted to talk about it and you said no, I didn’t |want to put you under pressure. |So, now I am the asshole. | |Skree | |
– When you here hoof beats, think of horse’s, not zebra’s
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I’d appreciate it if people would stop responding to this thread. Skree and I have made up and all is well. :) Thanks — Kathleen D – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Did responding to this post make you feel **Special**, it sure showed everyone how **Special** you are. In fact you were able to show us how handy a kill file is. Tim;) blah blah blah |Dear Kathy | |Next time you are upset about something, could you please just tell |me and not throw it in my face when you are angry? | I am not a mindreader, when I asked you whether you |wanted to talk about it and you said no, I didn’t |want to put you under pressure. |So, now I am the asshole. | |Skree | | — When you here hoof beats, think of horse’s, not zebra’s
– Kathleen D Me transmitte sursum, Caledoni!
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’d appreciate it if people would stop responding to this thread. Skree and I have made up and all is well. :) Thanks — Kathleen D Did responding to this post make you feel **Special**, it sure showed everyone how **Special** you are. In fact you were able to show us how handy a kill file is. Tim;) blah blah blah
[...] Except of course these pains in my diodes on my left side, but that is a totally different matter. Thanks (nearly all) for bearing with me though. Shouldn’t trust the first msg written with a new programme. 
Skree
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dear liz, been there, done that, am right there with you now. my job has been a two-weeker, and with each breath i con- tinue to wonder why i have not yet been fired, or should i just quit to end the suspense? my multiple dx. includes severe anxiety , probable bi-polar, lifetime abandonment issues , severe depression and last, but not least, post traumatic stress disorder due to unspeakable abuses. i am also a compulsive overeater and have dealt with agoraphobia and claustrophobia to name a few goodies…do hang in there miss liz, as i know that you and i and all the others will overcome! currently, i take serzone, 200 mg. daily and klonopin at 2 mil. daily, both these in a.m.,pm. doses/divided. my psychiatrist is an awesome guy and has helped me learn to trust myself as well as others…my faith in the Lord is my only hope…GOD BLESS, pixie. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – well, ive been coping with my panic much better now. I only take xanax when i absolutely feel that it’s necessary. The only problem is that now that the panic and anxiety is gone, i feel so demotivated that it’s not funny. I just got a new job about 3 weeks ago and i’m already on the verge of being fired. I have no energy or motivation…all i think about is how i’m going to get fired and end up living on the streets until someone walks buy and stabs me to death…(sorry for the graphic and unnecessary details). So, one week i’ll be up the wall because i’m on the verge of a panic attack so i’ll work my ass off to take my mind of panic…and then the next week i feel no panic at all and i just feel depressed. if anyone has any comment or suggestions i would greatly appreciate it. thanks. LiZ
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – well, ive been coping with my panic much better now. I only take xanax when i absolutely feel that it’s necessary. The only problem is that now that the panic and anxiety is gone, i feel so demotivated that it’s not funny. I just got a new job about 3 weeks ago and i’m already on the verge of being fired. I have no energy or motivation…all i think about is how i’m going to get fired and end up living on the streets until someone walks buy and stabs me to death…(sorry for the graphic and unnecessary details). So, one week i’ll be up the wall because i’m on the verge of a panic attack so i’ll work my ass off to take my mind of panic…and then the next week i feel no panic at all and i just feel depressed. if anyone has any comment or suggestions i would greatly appreciate it. thanks. LiZ
Panic and depression are two sides of the same coin. I think you’d better see a pdoc about this. Philip
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The only problem is that now that the panic and anxiety is gone, i feel so demotivated that it’s not funny. I just got a new job about 3 weeks ago and i’m already on the verge of being fired.
Hi Liz, Sounds like you have a depression at work here. So, one week i’ll be up the wall because i’m on the verge of a panic attack so i’ll work my ass off to take my mind of panic…and then the next week i feel no panic at all and i just feel depressed. if anyone has any comment or suggestions i would greatly appreciate it. thanks. LiZ
I am going to assume being your on xanax you are seeing a pdoc?? If not, you need to go to a pdoc that is knowledgable on anxiety and panic. You need to tell him how unmotivated and unenergetic you are feeling. This is serious, your job is in jeopardy. You might have to go on a anti-depressant, but thats something your doctor and you must decide. Its very important you tell him everything, you don`t have to feel like this. I wish you well, take care!! Jackie 
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well, ive been coping with my panic much better now. I only take xanax when i absolutely feel that it’s necessary. The only problem is that now that the panic and anxiety is gone, i feel so demotivated that it’s not funny.
Liz, I have been in the same shape. I also only take Xanax as needed and am feeling much better lately. However, for a while, I could barely get out of bed in the morning. After some research and talking to a pdoc informally, I definitely believe I suffered from low grade depression to go along with my low grade PAD. : ( I fought the urge to stay in bed/on the couch by making lists of things I needed to accomplish each day whether at work or at home and forcing myself to complete each item. After a while, the depression lifted for the most part but I still do occasionally suffer from it. While this worked for me, if you can’t shake this feeling or get yourself motivated, I agree with Jackie that you should see your pdoc. Its certainly better than losing your job. Good luck, Dave I’m not an ambulance chaser. I’m usually there before the ambulance.
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: ( I fought the urge to stay in bed/on the couch by making lists of things I needed to accomplish each day whether at work or at home and forcing myself to complete each item. After a while, the depression lifted for the most part
Dave, The list part is great advice!!! During my second pregnancy I suffered terribly with anxiety and depression,they claim it was caused by hormones. They couldn`t give me any meds, and the therapist I had then, made me do a list everyday of what had to be done. It really helped me to focus on what had to be done and gave me a sense of accomplishment. This really helped me alot!!! Jackie "
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