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Charm wrote: > Lucky me. > At least I know what’s wrong with me now. > How do you hurry time and fix it?
Do not make the mistake of rushing. It won’t work.
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paneon on 05/11/2005 12:52 pm wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->> A lifetime of abuse, rape, emotional abuse. > Same here. And all I got was a heap of phobia problems, and a shit-load of > body scarring from Hilariously Stupid Suicide Attempt #1(TM). > (Oh yes – and this crappy t-shirt.) >> But recently, Car accident which nearly killed me, Busted my right ankle > and >> left wrist. This left me mildly disabled, but unable to perform my current >> job. Then motorbike accident that busted my knee. A boyfriend that ripped > me >> off and told me a bunch of lies. I believe and trusted him, when I should >> have known better. >> I know that may sounds trivial to some, However, I was a workaholic and a >> perfectionist. > Ditto on the workaholic perfectionist thing. No ditto on the triviality. >> A person can only tolerate so much. > Don’t ‘tolerate’ the past then… (‘Accept’.) > Just because bad things have happened in the past doesn’t mean they will > continue to happen in the future. > (-paneon)
As long as we can live and learn. Learn to risk assess… I know I often bang on about risk assessing, but it’s worth learning the art/science. I start with the premise "what am I prepared to lose?". If someone then goes off with something I’m prepared to lose, then it’s not really a loss; it’s a planned purchase. [kind of thing].
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Lucky me. At least I know what’s wrong with me now. How do you hurry time and fix it? — Charm
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Charm on 04/11/2005 12:13 pm wrote: > Lucky me. > At least I know what’s wrong with me now. > How do you hurry time and fix it?
So how did you get that then?
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"Charm" (ch…@cyberone.com.au) writes: > Lucky me. > At least I know what’s wrong with me now. > How do you hurry time and fix it?
Sunds lie I happened toget hat one right;-). I oughta know. I am stil coming out of mine:):) Nothing can be done to hurry it, save knowing what it is, and knowign of the various steps one goes through, where oen can know where they are at in the process, and know what will be next, so as to not thin each time there is a new stage thqt they are losing heir mind or soemthing. Given all you went through, you’d be *abnormal* to *not* have post traumatic stress. I find it he normal and healthy rection to some abnormal event or series of events. Again, oen would have to be insane to not have PTS living such things. Hang in there and give Time the time to tke the time it takes…. Besides, it is not as f the progress is only at the end of the process. As much as it might not always feel thsi way, it happens daily. Best of courage, Charm! You’ll pull through. Chloe > > — > Charm > —
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A lifetime of abuse, rape, emotional abuse. But recently, Car accident which nearly killed me, Busted my right ankle and left wrist. This left me mildly disabled, but unable to perform my current job. Then motorbike accident that busted my knee. A boyfriend that ripped me off and told me a bunch of lies. I believe and trusted him, when I should have known better. I know that may sounds trivial to some, However, I was a workaholic and a perfectionist. A person can only tolerate so much. — Charm "Sklenge" <skle…@yahoo.co.uk> wrote in message
news:BF90F41D.D030%sklenge@yahoo.co.uk… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Charm on 04/11/2005 12:13 pm wrote: >> Lucky me. >> At least I know what’s wrong with me now. >> How do you hurry time and fix it? > So how did you get that then?
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Charm wrote: > Lucky me. > At least I know what’s wrong with me now. > How do you hurry time and fix it?
Been there, done that. There is no quick fix, passage of time is part of the solution.
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Charm wrote: > A lifetime of abuse, rape, emotional abuse. > But recently, Car accident which nearly killed me, Busted my right ankle and > left wrist. This left me mildly disabled, but unable to perform my current > job. Then motorbike accident that busted my knee. A boyfriend that ripped me > off and told me a bunch of lies. I believe and trusted him, when I should > have known better. > I know that may sounds trivial to some, However, I was a workaholic and a > perfectionist. > A person can only tolerate so much.
What job did you do?
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> A lifetime of abuse, rape, emotional abuse.
Same here. And all I got was a heap of phobia problems, and a shit-load of body scarring from Hilariously Stupid Suicide Attempt #1(TM). (Oh yes – and this crappy t-shirt.) > But recently, Car accident which nearly killed me, Busted my right ankle and > left wrist. This left me mildly disabled, but unable to perform my current > job. Then motorbike accident that busted my knee. A boyfriend that ripped me > off and told me a bunch of lies. I believe and trusted him, when I should > have known better. > I know that may sounds trivial to some, However, I was a workaholic and a > perfectionist.
Ditto on the workaholic perfectionist thing. No ditto on the triviality. > A person can only tolerate so much.
Don’t ‘tolerate’ the past then… (‘Accept’.) Just because bad things have happened in the past doesn’t mean they will continue to happen in the future. (-paneon)
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